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40sDating Review Singapore October 2026

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4.5excellent
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www.40sdating.sg
40sDating is a dating site for singles over 40 wanting serious relationships, with personality test matching
  • Personality test based partner matching
  • Shortest premium subscription of 3 months
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Members in Singapore40,000
Women / Men 43% 57%
From$39.90/mo
Age 45-54 55+

40sdating Singapore in 10 seconds

  • Dating site for over 40 singles looking for love and serious relationships
  • Uses psychological matching of partners based on a personality test
  • Offers easy usability and helpful tips for online dating beginners
  • No mobile app available to download
  • Shortest premium membership subscription is 3 months

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Is 40sdating right for you?

Find out if 40sdating is the right service for you or if there are better options.

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Who is 40sdating for, and not for?

40sdating is for…
  • Over 40 singles looking for serious relationships or deep committments
  • Singles who want to fall in love
  • Singles over 40 who are beginners in online dating
…and not for
  • Those searching for erotic adventures and casual encounters
  • Older singles who are into casual flirting
  • Young singles looking for sugar daddy relationships

40sdating pros & cons

  • Lots of special features to use
  • There are very few to no fake profiles
  • Members thoroughly complete their profiles
  • There is no mobile app
  • Very few members are active daily
  • Important contacting features are not free to use

What 40sdating really costs in Singapore

Compared with other dating services, 40sdating is average-priced.
Premium
Total
3 months 79.90 SGD / month 239.70 SGD Basic
6 months 49.90 SGD / month 299.40 SGD Classic
12 months 39.90 SGD / month 478.80 SGD Committed
Our pick: 12 months for 478.80 SGD, that is 39.90 SGD per month, 50% less per month than 3 months.
40sdating costs last updated on Oct 19, 2026
Payment options in Singapore
Credit Card
No anonymous payment.With 40sdating you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
be2 S.à.r.l., the operator that bills the membership
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The shortest subscription 40sDating offers is 3-months. Hence, it's best to be sure whether you really want to use this dating site for finding a special someone. With a free membership, you are able to register on the site and check out its features. There are many things you can do without a premium membership such as browse profiles and send likes. Familiarsing yourself with how Single40sDating works and checking out some of the member profiles can help you decide if it's worth investing your time and money on the dating site.

Free vs. paid services in Singapore
FeatureFreeBasicClassicCommitted
Registration includedincludedincludedincluded
Upload your photos and use the blur feature includedincludedincludedincluded
Personality test includedincludedincludedincluded
Compatibility meter and analysisShows gauges how compatible you are with another member. includedincludedincludedincluded
Send likes includedincludedincludedincluded
The First StepUpon completing registration, the site prompts a message you can send to many people at once. not includedincludedincludedincluded
IcebreakerSet questions beforehand for an instant send when you visit another member's profile. not includedincludedincludedincluded
Blurred photos of members not includedincludedincludedincluded
Send unlimited messages not includedincludedincludedincluded
Read all your messages not includedincludedincludedincluded
See who visited your profileShows a list of members who recently viewed your profile. not includedincludedincludedincluded
Add contacts to your favourites listA page where you can see all the member profiles you sent likes to. not includedincludedincludedincluded
Video CallingHave a video chat with your matches right on the platform. Video Calling is only available for premium paying members. not includedincludedincludedincluded
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Who is signed up on 40sdating in Singapore?

Since 40sDating is a dedicated dating over 40 site, the big majority of its members are singles over 40 from the United Kingdom. According to the website, they have nearly one million members on their database who are seeking love and serious relationships.

When it comes to member activity, there are not a lot of members who seem to be actively seeking a date. Majority of members create a profile and just wait until someone sends them a message or a like.

10,000
Weekly active members in Singapore
40,000
Members in Singapore
Gender
Age of members

How does 40sdating work?

Video calling with your matches is available if you have a premium membership

Compatibility meter lets you know if you're a match at first glance

Roulette-type matchmaking is available

Making contact on 40sdating

★★★★★ 3.5/5

  • You can only send likes if you uploaded a profile photo
  • Add members to your 'Favourites List'
  • Roulette-type matchmaking available
  • Search filters can be used on the member directory
  • Sending messages for free is not possible

Profile quality

★★★★★ 4.0/5

  • Compatibility meter is available on each profile
  • Most members have their photos blurred
  • Contacting features are easily accessible on member profiles
  • Upload photos from Facebook
  • Profiles are pleasantly detailed
  • Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
  • You can edit your profile information later

The 40sdating app

  • No mobile app available
  • Has a mobile-responsive site instead
  • Easy to use
  • Has the same features as the website version
  • Can be accessed through any mobile browser

40sDating offers its users a seamless mobile experience, even without a dedicated mobile app. Instead, the platform has optimized its website to be mobile-responsive, ensuring that users can access its features with ease and convenience on any device.

The user-friendly interface is carried over from the desktop version, maintaining consistency and familiarity for its users. Despite the absence of a mobile application, members can effortlessly access the platform's full functionality through any mobile browser, ensuring they never miss out on potential connections.

Our field test

★★★★★ 3.0/5

"I lost my wife a couple of years ago and thought everything was lost. My friend showed me this dating site and taught me everything I needed to know about online dating. The site was very helpful in showing me its features and how to use it. I am in talks with a woman I am getting to know. We just had a video call last night, and I'm seeing her soon." - Alexander, 56

Design & usability

40sDating is designed to have straightforward usability. Since it is technically a site for older people to use, all contacting features are easily accessible anywhere. You can find them on the member directory, on the home page, and on each member profile. All contacting buttons are also emphasized.

Special features

Here are some of 40sDating special features:

Finding people 3

Last VisitorsFree

Last Visitors shows a list of members who recently viewed your profile.

Compatibility MeterFree

Compatibility Meter shows gauges how compatible you are with another member.

Is it Love at first Like?Free

This is 40sDating feature for quick matchmaking. You either click like or 'x' for every member suggestion.

Showing interest 2

The First StepFree

Upon completing registration, 40sDating will prompt 'The First Step' feature wherein you can select a message crafted by the dating site to send to many people at once. It's like announcing your arrival on the platform!

Favourites ListFree

Favourites List is a page where you can see all the member profiles you sent likes to.

Messaging and contact 2

IcebreakerFree

Icebreaker lets you set questions beforehand for an instant send when you visit another member's profile. These questions should help break the ice with other members of the platform.

Video Calling

Have a video chat with your matches right on the 40sDating platform. Video Calling is only available for premium-paying members.

Final results

4.5excellent
“40sDating is a good dating site to start your journey with online dating. Although there are a few members active, you can find some genuine ones on the site. You are not required to sign up for a premium membership right away, so we recommend checking the site out first!”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
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tested October 2026
Signup4.0
Making contact3.5
Profile quality4.0
Field test3.0
Overall4.5/ 5

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3 40sdating experiences from real users

2.3/ 5
★★★★★
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recommend 40sdating
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3 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Mostly genuine profiles
  • Plenty of Singaporean members
  • Suitable for people in their 40s and 50s
What readers complained about
  • Fake profiles and scammers
  • Difficult cancellation and automatic renewals
  • Misleading premium membership offers
43 years
George ★★★★★

Lots of fake profiles, reusing stolen or stock photos. Most of the real people are low potential matches. Once you subscribe, they will auto renew without notice, then threaten you for payment, even if you do not want to continue using their website. Truly unpleasant!!!

Does not recommend 40sdating
43 years
Jasmine ★★★★★

Mislead client to purchase premium membership , please dont join!!this is not registered company in singapore ! Cannot trust !!

Does not recommend 40sdating
48 years
DorisVerified 40sdating user ★★★★★

Difficult to cancel. You may need to change your card number to avoid being charged for autorenewal.

Recommends 40sdating

Cancelling your 40sdating subscription

How you can cancel

  • Via your profile settings on 40sdating

Contact details

Companybe2 S.à.r.l.
Address13 rue du Commerce, L-1351 Luxembourg, Luxembourg
Phone(+61) 280 887 326
Emailcustomerservice@single40sdating.co.sg

Do subscriptions auto-renew?

Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 4 weeks before your current term ends.

Money-back guarantee

  • 40sdating does not offer a money-back guarantee
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40sdating FAQ

What is Single40sDating?

Single40sDating is an online dating website that aims to provide a platform for individuals in their 40s to connect, chat, and potentially find a partner.

Who owns Single40sDating?

Single40sDating is owned and operated by be2 S.à.r.l.

What makes Single40sDating different from other services?

Single40sDating is different because, unlike many other dating platforms that flood you with countless random profiles, it prioritizes quality over quantity. By focusing on individuals' unique preferences and needs in their 40s, Single40sDating uses advanced, scientifically-proven algorithms to ensure you receive matches that truly resonate with your personality and life stage.

USABILITY

Is there a mobile app available for Single40sDating?

No, Single40sDating doesn't have a mobile app at the moment.

How can I increase my chances of finsing the right partner on Single40sDating?

Increase your chances of finding the right partner in Single40sDating by meticulously completing your profile. The more details you share, the better the algorithm works for you.

How does Single40sDating match me with other members?

Single40sDating matches you with other members using a specialized approach. Thanks to a unique algorithm developed specifically for this platform, you receive suggestions from members whose profiles align closely with your search criteria.

How can I contact other members?

You can contact your matches by clicking on the button that appears beside their name in your list or by opening their profile and clicking on the button designed to send a message.

How do I see messages sent to men from other members?

On your main profile page, you will find your messages inbox. This is where you can find all the communication between you and your matches.

How can I switch off the email notifications?

If you do not want to receive emails about new matches from the site, you can switch off the email notifications in your profile settings. Do not forget to save your changes so that your preferences are updated.

How do I change my profile information?

You can change some of your personal and profile information or edit your search criteria in your profile after you log in using your email and password. Do not forget to save your changes so that your profile will be updated.

Who can see my photos on Single40sDating?

The website lets you stay anonymous for as long as you wish. This means that you decide when a match can see your photo for the first time. When uploading your photo you can choose to release it to individuals upon request only.

Why wasn't my photo approved?

Photos where your face is not clearly recognisable, photos of children, celebrities, groups of people, photos of landscapes and animations will not be approved.

PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP

What are the advantages of premium membership?

You can choose from several different Premium Memberships, which offer you an array of advantages: You can read and write messages, view photos of the other members, and if you have purchased a full-price membership, you may be able to use our success guarantee.

How much are the premium rates on Single40sDating?

Learn more about the premium packages here.

SECURITY

How do I report other profiles?

You can do this by going to the user’s profile and clicking the option to report a profile.

You did not find your question? Ask us!

Security

Does 40sdating sell your data?
No, 40sdating does not sell your data.
Was 40sdating hacked in the past?
No, 40sdating was never hacked.
How accurately does 40sdating track your location?
40sdating does not track your location.
Do your 40sdating profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
No, your 40sdating photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
Who can view your pictures on 40sdating?
Only paying 40sdating members can view your pictures.
Is your phone number required for signing up at 40sdating?
No, you can sign up at 40sdating without a phone number.
Can you erase your personal data on 40sdating?
Yes, 40sdating provides an option for users to erase their data.

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Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.

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