Heated Affairs
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Our Review

The makers behind sites Alt.com and Cams.com is back with another platform. This time, Various Inc. caters to a rather unconventional market—married people in search of affairs.

With over 48 million members worldwide, Heated Affairs claims to introduce users to members who are also looking for a little excitement through affairs and sensual satisfaction.

Claiming to be the world's largest cheating site is a somewhat tall order. This is why we took our time to inspect every single nook and cranny of this affair site.

Does adulterous romance await at Heated affairs? Read on to find out.

Heated Affairs Member Structure

110,000 from Singapore
Members activity
1,000 active weekly
Gender Proportion
30 %
70 %
  • You get a personal profile which you can fill out
  • Over 200,000 monthly visits worldwide
  • Records over 70,000 monthly new visitors worldwide
  • Most members are premium holder accounts
  • Male users outnumber the females
  • Most users are 25 years old and above

In terms of members, it seems like one of the world’s largest cheating sites enjoy an abundance of returning and new members.

The majority of the users are males aged 25 years old and above. What’s rather interesting is that the margins between age ranges are minute—the search for passionate affairs seems to know no age.

Since this is an affair site, there’s little regard to relationships at Heated Affairs. Aside from people who are currently unattached, married couples and even groups can sign up and search for carnal satisfaction.

In terms of sexual preference, Heated Affairs is pretty inclusive. Members of the rainbow community won’t have a challenging time identifying themselves as their preference is included upon registration.

Lastly, most of the members at Heated Affairs subscribed to a premium membership and even went ahead and verified their accounts. For a standard member, these actions may motivate them to further explore and stay at Heated Affairs.


Heated Affairs Age Range and Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

Signing Up at Heated Affairs

Heated Affairs Registration
  • Must be at least 18 years old to sign up
  • 4-8 minutes sign up process
  • Fill out five short forms to finish registration
  • Couples and groups can sign up for one account
  • No match suggestions upon sign up
  • Email verification is required
  • Facebook registration is not offered

Signing up at Heated Affairs is done in five easy steps. All you have to do is complete short forms with pre-composed answers.

The first form will ask you about your orientation and preference. Select from options “man, woman, couple, LGBT, couple, group, or TS/TV/TG.” After choosing, click the “Join For Free!” button. This action will automatically redirect you to the second form.

You will input your birth date and location in the second form. Heated Affairs includes this helpful directory where you can select your country, province, and ZIP code. Once you’re through, click “Continue” and the third form will pop up.

This one will ask you to create your account by inputting your email, username, and password. Since Heated Affairs is a discreet cheating site, you are encouraged to use a screen name to protect your identity.

The following form will require some information, notably your sexual orientation, body type, race, and marital status. If you’re a little wary, you can always set your answer to the default “Prefer Not to Say.” 

You will need a little creativity for the fifth and final form. You’ll be asked to introduce yourself with at least a 10-character bio, plus a short description of who you are and what you’re in search for at Heated Affairs. 

Heated Affairs will send an activation link after your registration. After confirming your email, you can immediately take a look around the website.

The signup process is probably the only mandatory action at Heated Affairs. The rest, from creating your profile, searching for matches, and contacting other members, will all be up to your time and pace.

Personality Quizzes

Heated Affairs also have quizzes you can take so the site can further match you with someone to a tee.

  • Personality Type

Based on the Myer-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), Personality Type is a 25-item questionnaire. 

In it, you will choose among the four options (Strongly Disagree, Somewhat Disagree, Somewhat Agree, and Strongly Agree) to answer statements that will cover who you are as a person, friend, social being, and romantic partner. 

There are also 16 optional questions that will discuss your dating preference and how you are in bed.

  • Additional Questions

In this multiple choice and essay-type section, you are given a chance to talk about everything bedroom related, plus your dreams and goals. You may also share your hobbies, what it's like for you at work, and generally how you live your life.

  • Purity Test

A checklist of some sorts, tick any of the sexual activities you've done in the list to know if you're a sex master or lustful novice.

  • My Kinks

Like what the heading suggests, this is the part where go all out with your sexual adventures and fantasies. Check which of the activities you'd like to give a try and determine if you're willing to be the doer, receiver, or spectator.

Heated Affairs created these tests with compatibility and convenience in mind. If your sexual preferences don't click based on the results, it is faster to cut ties and bid the other good luck.

Making Contact on Heated Affairs

Heated Affairs Contacting
  • Full access to direct messages is a premium
  • Join blogs and groups for free
  • All members can access the chat rooms
  • View, like, and comment on contest photos for free
  • Standard members can add up to 200 members on their Hotlist
  • Standard and paying members can interact through the IM service

Knowing that fake accounts or even scammers may plague dating platforms, it's quite understandable that Heated Affairs will limit a standard user's access to the site. After all, the website aims to be discreet, and one way to do so is by making sure the members you interact with are all humans with the same intentions.

Paying members get the upper hand when it comes to interaction as they have full access to:

  • Direct Messages

Whenever they like the profile they're browsing, premium accounts can send them messages, photos, private albums and a variety of media. They can also read and respond to messages from other fellow Gold Members for full interaction.

  • Hotlist

Premium members can add up to a thousand profiles to their hotlist. That way they won't miss interacting with a member because they lost their profile in a sea of million users.

  • Icebreaker

These are the witty pick-up lines or opening statements you can send out en masse. 

  • Friend Network

Paying members can also send potential acquaintances or friendships a request. Having friends in your Heated Affairs network is a subtle way to show off that you are a credible and accessible member.

  • Flirt

If a paying member wants to start something, they can test the waters by sending a flirt. This wordless interaction is sufficient enough to let a member know you got your eyes on them.

So, what becomes of standard account users? The good news is that they can also enjoy some of the interaction features at Heated Affairs: 

  • Instant Messenger

The Instant Messenger (IM) is another way to contact members at Heated Affairs; the only catch is that they should use the service, too. The IM service supports webcam, so it's possible to video chat with a member, watch live cams, or start a show yourself.

  • Joining Blog Forums

Write any topic under the sun at Heated Affairs' blog forums. Aside from displaying your talents, you can also follow engaging members and interact with them through comments on their blog posts.

  • Joining Groups

Divided geographically or by interest, you can join groups to get in touch with several Heated Affairs members at once.

  • Chat Rooms

Heated Affairs also have public chat rooms that are open to all the members. In here, you can freely interact with anyone and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky by the end of it.

Gold members indeed get more bang for their buck, but letting standard users interact through other means is still a nice and thoughtful touch.

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Heated Affairs Profile Quality

Heated Affairs Profile
  • Easy to supply and edit information
  • Detailed member profile
  • Viewing a member's complete profile is a premium feature
  • Only paying members can view full-sized photos and full-length videos
  • Offers two ways to verify accounts

    Heated Affairs sports one of the most jampacked profiles we've seen, but here's the thing: standard members can only view profiles when they upgrade or get contacted by a Gold member.

    A Heated Affairs profile will include the necessary name, age, location, and description of the member. It will also feature the member's gallery, plus the introduction they wrote upon registration.

    To form a better idea of the member, a profile will also include their sexual orientation and preference, marital status, language, body type and astrological sign.

    What makes a Heated Affairs profile packed are a member's answers to the My Kink's test, the compatibility chart in terms of preference, plus a listing of your Top Fans, friends, and testimonials. It even includes a rundown of your activities, from uploading a new photo to liking a friend's post.

    Other equally essential sections in a profile are:

    • Send a Message

    This section not only allows you to send a message, you can also:

    1. Attach photo
    2. Share private albums
    3. Add smileys
    4. Send virtual flowers and gifts
    5. Share a link
    6. Attach your profile, bling, and signature
    • Interact Options

    Messages are not the only interactions you can have. In this section, you can:

    1. Add to Hotlist
    2. Send a Flirt
    3. Send a friend request
    4. Send a Tip
    5. Refer them to a friend who's not a Heated Affairs member

    What's rather neat about Heated Affairs is that they let you confirm your profile to prove that you are a living, breathing human in search for some hot night outs.

    You can verify your profile by uploading a photo of you holding a handwritten sign of your username, or you can use ConfirmID. The latter is a third-party application that will require you to submit a few requirements for verification purposes only. Once you're done, you will be rewarded with 500 points.

    Heated Affairs App

    Heated Affairs Mobile
    • Available for iOS users only
    • The website is mobile-friendly for Android users
    • Free to download
    • Easy to navigate
    • Features minimal ads

    For people who want to date while on-the-go, Heated Affairs does offer a mobile app, but it's only available for iOS users. Android users can access the website via their trusted mobile browser. It's mobile-friendly and functional so they won't have a hard time adjusting from laptops to mobile phones.

    When we reviewed its mobile version, we're happy to report it retained most of its colour and functionality. What rather surprised us was the ease of navigating the mobile app. 

    On desktop, Heated Affairs look a little cramped as it is packed with details, photos, and a seemingly endless feed. When viewed on mobile, the site is less wordy and the layout was neater. We were able to digest each of the details as the screen showed us photos and short texts one at a time.

    Noticeably absent from the mobile app are the personality quizzes expect for the My Kinks. Aside from this, there are also some ads on mobile; although they don't necessarily obstruct anything, the website version was ad-less and purely showcased the content of Heated Affairs.

    Heated Affairs Real Life Review

    "A few months after I found out my now ex-husband cheated on me, I had a sudden epiphany: I should also get back on the game. Sex is a good, even powerful, thing and I shouldn't be depriving myself when the gallivanting cheater is on the loose. Ironically, I found this site and something in me just knew I had to sign up. I've been here for 2 weeks⁠—now this is the passion and sex I've only been imagining." K, 32 

    Design and Usability

    With most users aged 25 and up, the layout of Heated Affairs is understandably simple and straightforward. This is a big help especially for those who are not as tech-savvy.

    The colour white dominates the affair site while bits of orange and red are used for message notifications and all other alerts.

    It may be straightforward, but the packed website may be overwhelming for first-time users. The plentiful photos, texts, and tabs that lead you elsewhere can be confusing at first. Once you get the hang of it though, you'll realise that every edit and click leads you to customise and enjoy Heated Affairs to the fullest.

    The affair site features a seemingly endless feed similar to defunct sites like MySpace and Friendster. Placed at the topmost side are the buttons that will lead you to the Messaging features, notifications, and the main tabs (My Stuff, Search, Live Action, Community, and What’s Hot).

    Plus points to Heated Affairs for the ad-less browsing experience and for sporting a familiar and simple design of the inbox.

    Heated Affairs Costs and Prices

    Free Services
    • Edit and customise own profile
    • Upload pictures and videos
    • Edit search filters and preferences
    • Add up to 200 members on Hotlist
    • Access to Instant Messenger
    • Start a live show on Instant Messenger
    • Watch live model shows
    • Join blogs and chat rooms
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    Fee-Based Services
    • View members' complete profiles
    • View full-sized photos and full-length videos
    • Utilise the Advanced Search feature
    • Add a thousand members on Hotlist
    • Access to direct messages
    • Send friend requests and flirts
    • Access to Sex Academy
    • Cast multiple votes on Contests

    Is Heated Affairs expensive or cheap?

    In comparison to other providers Heated Affairs is above average.
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    Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
    Gold Membership
    1 Month40.85 SGD / Month40.85 SGD
    3 Months27.12 SGD / Month81.36 SGD
    12 Months20.39 SGD / Month244.69 SGD
    Standard Contact
    1 Month27.21 SGD / Month27.21 SGD
    3 Months16.30 SGD / Month48.90 SGD
    200 Credits0.02 SGD / Credit4.09 SGD
    500 Credits0.02 SGD / Credit8.18 SGD
    1,000 Credits0.01 SGD / Credit13.64 SGD
    Adult Movies
    1 Month25.85 SGD / Month25.85 SGD
    3 Months17.66 SGD / Month52.99 SGD
    Search Highlights
    1 Month13.57 SGD / Month13.57 SGD
    3 Months12.21 SGD / Month36.62 SGD
    Private Chat Room
    1 Month13.57 SGD / Month13.57 SGD
    3 Months9.48 SGD / Month28.44 SGD
    6 weeks8.12 SGD / Week48.69 SGD
    12 Months6.75 SGD / Month81.02 SGD
    Heated Affairs Cost SG
    Payment Options
    • Credit Card

    A significant number of Heated Affairs' members avail the Gold membership packages covering 1, 3, or 12 months. Aside from these monthly deals, there are also other features users can pay for separately:

    • Points

    The currency at Heated Affairs, Points let you access features and interact with live cam models.

    • Search Highlight

    If you'd like to be ahead of the game, you can pay to boost your popularity by appearing at the top of the searches.

    • Adult Movies

    Access, stream, or download almost 2000 quality adult movies at Heated Affairs. You can try it out for three days for just SGUSD 2.73.

    • Private Chat Room

    Host virtual parties by paying for private chat rooms. Since you're the host, you can handpick your guests and even decide to open it up to the public users for added fun.

    Although you can get by rather well with just a standard account, subscribing to a Gold membership or even purchasing the add-on features can boost your chances of meeting and interacting like-minded members.

    In the event that you want to cancel your Heated Affairs subscriptions, you can do by turning off the Auto-Renew function. You may also get in touch with Customer Service to fast-track your withdrawal at Heated Affairs.

    Special Features

    Heated Affairs is sure to give you steamy encounters and experiences with these special features:

    Personality Quizzes

    Although there are instances when opposites do attract, for sexual satisfaction, it seems like finding a partner who shares the same fantasies and preferences as you is the key to more excellent compatibility.

    Since the ultimate goal of any Heated Affairs member is to satiate their carnal cravings, the four personality (and sexual) quizzes can surely help you save up some time. Reading through their fantasies and kinks enables you to decide faster if this is someone you're going to pursue.

    Multiple Accounts Linking

    Heated Affairs is part of FriendFinder Network which breathed life to dating and adult sites such as Sexfinder and TSDates.

    If you're a member of any of their sister sites, you can link in your Heated Affairs profile and vice versa so interested parties know where to find you.

    Live-Action Tab

    Standard accounts may be happy to note that they can get some virtual action, for free, via the Live-Action tab. In it, get access to:

    • Live Models - Standard accounts can watch live shows hosted by professional cam models. If you'd like to interact with them, note that this comes with a corresponding price tag.
    • Live Member Webcams and Top Broadcasters - Standard accounts can also take a look at their fellow member's content. They are free to view one broadcast per day.
    • Adult Chat Rooms - Interact with several members at once by joining a chat room or two.
    • Instant Messenger - Available for all members, you can flirt or get naughty through Heated Affair's Instant Messenger service. 


    With millions of users, Heated Affairs is no doubt a community. To stay updated on the buzz, visit the community tab to see:

    • Blogs, Heated Affairs Magazine, Groups, and Erotic Stories - Contribute or enjoy erotica at its finest when you check out the various written works at Heated Affairs.
    • Contests - Standard account holders can view, like, comment, and cast a vote during a Contest. These events are monthly things that aim to fire up competitiveness by asking members to showcase their sexiest themed photos.
    • Sex Academy - Exclusively for Gold members, learn neat bedroom tricks and tips at Sex Academy.

    Our rating

    Signing Up: 3.5 / 5
    Making Contact: 4.0 / 5
    Profile Quality: 4.0 / 5
    App: 3.0 / 5
    Real Life Review: 3.5 / 5

    Editor's Conclusion

    Datingscout.sg Author Chris Pleines
    With the outstanding user count and plentiful features, Heated Affairs seems to be the website you should sign up when in search of passionate affairs and sex. Still, it's not flawless as the site is a tad pricey compared to others and offers less accessibility for its standard members. However, the fact that numerous members subscribe to a Gold membership and even went ahead and verified their accounts speaks volume. With these actions, we can somehow conclude that Heated Affairs is a site that's worth the pay. Interested? Sign up at Heated Affairs!
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    Heated Affairs FAQ


    Is Heated Affairs legit?

    Yes, Heated Affairs is a legit cheating site. This platform shares the same parent company with sites like AdultFriendFinder and 99 Flavors.

    Free Services

    What is the difference between entering as a standard user and entering as a Heated Affairs paying member?

    As a standard user, you will be able to register, create a profile, join chat rooms, and blogs at Heated Affairs. Most of the functionalities that will allow you to directly contact and interact with other members (i.e. viewing their profiles and sending messages) are reserved for paying members only.

    Is Heated Affairs really free?

    Some functionalities of Heated Affairs is free but most of the features that will allow you to fully enjoy the site requires a fee.

    What are “Standard Member Popularity Privileges?”

    Heated Affairs members who received a lot of profile views will receive this reward.


    How do I turn off auto-renewal at Heated Affairs?

    If you would like to turn off the auto-renewal function, log in to your Heated Affairs account first. Hover your mouse on "My Stuff" and click “My Account." Click the “Manage My Accounts” section and then the “Billing History & Credit Card Info.” Click “Off” under product status to stop auto-renew.

    Where can I view my billing history at Heated Affairs?

    Log in to your Heated Affairs profile and then click on the “My Account” from the drop-down main menu. Go to the “Manage My Accounts” section and click “Billing History.”


    What do I do if I forgot my Heated Affairs password?

    If you forgot your Heated Affairs password you can access the Help/Contact page and locate the form to request for a new password. All you have to do is key in the username or email you used and type the captcha code. You will then receive an email that lets you set up a new password.

    How do I update my Heated Affairs profile?

    To update your profile, make sure you log in to your Heated Affairs account. Click on "My Account" and choose if you are going to update your basic profile (name, age, birthday, location, etc), your personal information (education, marital and relationship status, etc.) or your physical information (height, body type, hair colour etc.).

    What is the “Standard Contacts” feature and how does it work?

    This feature allows Heated Affairs premium members to get in touch with standard members. The paying member's profile and inbox will be accessible to non-paying users for easier interactions.

    How do I delete my Heated Affairs account?

    Since the deletion of your Heated Affairs profile is irreversible, make sure you are ready for such permanence then turn off the auto-renewal function.

    Click “My Account” and scroll to the“Manage Account” section. From there, click “Close Account” and “Please Delete My Account" to finalize your decision.

    Why is my computer and/or browser giving me errors when I am using Heated Affairs?

    Like its sister sites, Heated Affairs will require you to update to your browser's latest version before you can access it.

    Can I control the kind of images and videos I see on my feed?

    To control the erotic content, go to your Heated Affairs avatar and choose the Content Filter from the drop-down menu. Set your preference to “No Nudity”, “Some Nudity”, or “Everything" to proceed.


    How do I report a suspicious profile at Heated Affairs?

    If you want to report or complain about a suspicious Heated Affairs profile, take note of the following details:

    • Username of the offender
    • Details of the situation
    • A copy of the email you received
    • Chat text

    Fill out the Report Member Abuse form or give Heated Affairs a call to formalize your complaint.

    How do I block a Heated Affairs member?

    You'll need to log in Heated Affairs then go to the Message Center. Select the conversation of the member you wish to block then click the "Abuse" button. Select the "Block User" option and click "Yes" to confirm your decision. 

    How do I know if the Heated Affairs members are not fakes?

    Heated Affairs offers two ways for users to verify their accounts. To help you navigate the millions of users, look for profiles sporting the "Verified" or "Confirmed" (as in with ConfirmID) badges.

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    Contact details

    Company:Various Inc.
    Address:10 E. Hamilton Ave. Suite 600, Campbell, CA. 95008, USA