"The app isn't the best when it comes to the dating part. The profiles are either too insubstantial, or some of the girls I talk to end up ghosting me. There's just not a lot do unless you upgrade to premium. However, I loved using this app to see which events will be attended by a big number of lesbians, since my gaydar in public isn't always the best. I've met a lot of great girls through that alone, and some of them I ended up going on dates with." - Bella, 24
Her Review Singapore October 2026
HER is the world's largest dating app for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women. All about Her in Singapore.
3.5good
HER is a dating app for queer women that also works as a social platform for status updates
- Status updates alongside dating
- Available on iOS and Android
Relationships
Finding love
Flirts
Her Singapore in 10 seconds
- Claims to be the most popular lesbian dating app in the world
- Sets itself apart from others by being an app made for LGBTQ+ women and queer folks
- Also serves a social media platform where members can post status updates
- Most members are from the United States
- HER is available for iOS and Android users
- The app has occasional bugs and glitches
- Offers general free services and options to upgrade - Learn more here
“LGBTQ online dating can be intimidating in a straight-oriented industry, and HER has achieved its goal of solving just that. HER isn't originally a gay dating app just translated for lesbians, but an app with only queer women in mind from the very start. However, its re-branding from Dattch to HER in 2015 changed its system from 'lesbian dating app' to 'lesbian social app'. Yes, you will find women here, but you'll never know if they want to date or something more platonic. If you want other sites and apps that are more straightforward about dating, check our Matchmaking service category.”
Is Her right for you?
Find out if Her is the right service for you or if there are better options.
Better than Her
Who is Her for, and not for?
Her is for…
- For women looking for serious relationships and deep commitments
- For single women who want to fall in love
- Welcomes all LGBTQ+ women and queer individuals
…and not for
- If you're searching for erotic adventures and casual encounters
- Not for straight and conservative individuals
- Not for people who have BDSM lifestyles
Her pros & cons
- All profiles have photos
- Has active social media engagements
- Provides matches based on location and preferences
- Registration is only via Facebook or Instagram
- No manual search option
- Has no available web version
What Her really costs in Singapore
Compared with other dating services, Her is average-priced.
Premium
Premium is a monthly subscription for paid features such as Online Now and Read Receipts. It renews automatically unless you cancel.Total
1 month
14.99 SGD / month
14.99 SGD
6 months
10.00 SGD / month
59.99 SGD
Our pick: 59.99 SGD buys 6 months at 10.00 SGD per month, 33% less than the 1 month option. It is our sensible pick for regular use.
12 months
7.50 SGD / month
89.99 SGD
Her costs last updated on Oct 1, 2026
Payment options in Singapore
Credit CardVia Mobile PhoneApp Store
No anonymous payment.With Her you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
The company does not publish what the statement shows and the checkout page or first invoice tells
Her costs screenshot
Can you try Her for free?
- You can test Her free of charge
- You can at least read a message for free to try the service
If you cancel your premium subscription, you can still use the benefits of the membership until the end of the period. But you won't be refunded for the remaining days. When it's due to renew, your premium membership will be inactive and you won't be billed again. You can only ask for a refund within a month of a transaction.
Uninstalling the app or deleting your profile doesn't automatically cancel your subscription.
Free services
- Profile creation
- View profiles
- Send and receive messages
- Notifications
- Meet (Swipe left and right on profiles presented)
- Feed (Like and comment on posts and you can upload your own)
Paid services
- Online Now
- Who Has Liked My Profile
- Change Location
- Unlimited Swipes
- Read Receipts (See when your message was read)
- Rewind Profiles
How to cancel your Her subscription →
Is Her right for me?Who is signed up on Her in Singapore?
This site promotes inclusivity for all female members regardless of what they classify themselves— lesbians, bisexuals, and queers.
2,000
Weekly active members in Singapore
6,000
Members in Singapore
Gender
25%
18-24
32%
25-34
21%
35-44
13%
45-54
9%
55+
Age of members
How does Her work?
Specifically designed for LGBTQ+ women, including lesbians, bisexuals, and queers
Users must sign up through Facebook or Instagram, available on iOS and Android platforms
Utilizes a swipe mechanism for liking profiles, with matches formed through mutual likes
Offers a social feed for interactions and posts events to encourage community engagement
Basic services are free, with premium features like seeing who's online and unlimited swipes available through subscription
Signing up at Her
★★★★★ 3.0/5
Email & password
- You must be at least 18 years old to sign up
- You must sign up to browse Her
To sign up, download the Her app, available on iOS and Android. To complete the registration, provide all required information.
Required information
- Name
- Date of birth
- Location
- Your gender
- Your relationship status
- Type of relationship wanted
- Profile bio / greeting
- Your physical appearance
- Personal questionnaire
- Profile picture upload
Optional information
- Ideal partner questionnaire
No verification is required to sign up at Her.
Making contact on Her
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- You can only send messages to Friends and Matches
- No manual search option
- Swiping left or right match function
- Upgrade to see who "Liked" you
- Sending friend requests is free
Profile quality
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- Apart from photos, you can also upload text items
- 8 photos are the optimum number of uploads (according to their stats)
- You can view other members' friends list
- Profiles are only on their first names
- Shows their distance from current your location
Our field test
★★★★★ 3.0/5
"I've read tons of good reviews about Hers so I've decided to try it. Well, I got no regrets! It's the best among all the female-exlcusive apps. But still not the best dating app though. Overall, it is a good app, it has a good design, the price is just good. So I'm all good." -Sheena, 27
Design & usability
Design and Usability
The design of the app is modern and sophisticated. Colours used for the app are pleasing to the eyes and the app is generally organised.
It is easy to navigate even for those who are just not familiar with dating apps.
Since it is part dating app and part social media platform, members have more things to do with it. They can also know more about other users by reading their posts and status updates. It is also one way for members to voice out what they are feeling without worrying about being judged,
Special features
HER created some special features exclusively curated for lesbians to meet and interact.
Meet
Meet is the main feature of the entire app. Here you are presented with different profiles who meet your age and distance preference. You can swipe to either like or dismiss them. Once you mutually like each other or are friends, you can message each other.
Feed
The feed is a feature that lets you interact with members real-time without needing to be matches or friends. You can like or comment on posts, and you can add your own image or text post. Being active on this feature exposes you to more people and increases your visibility.
Events
Events can be viewed and posted in the Feed. The best lesbian events in your area are posted here: from music festivals to cookouts to concerts to comedy shows. Attending these events will let you meet and socialize with lesbians.
Feelings
This feature lets you express your dating mood and intentions in real time through temporary, customizable tags, offering a more fluid and emotionally authentic way to connect in queer dating.
Final results
3.5good
Is Her right for me?
tested October 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact3.0
Profile quality3.0
Field test3.0
Overall3.5/ 5
Compare Her to alternatives
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Her FAQ
FACTS
When was HER created?
Dattch was created in 2013 and it was renamed to HER in 2015.
When will the HER app be on Android?
The HER app is already available for both Android and iOS devices.
Where can I read HER's success stories?
You'll find success stories on the Blog section of their official website.
Are there fake profiles on the HER app?
They take extra measures (only allowing log-ins from Facebook and Instagram) to weed out fake profiles, but it would be best to err on the side of common sense and report users you find suspicious.
USABILITY
How do I unblock someone on HER?
Blocking people is a permanent action and can't be undone.
How do I send a message on HER?
You can only send messages to Friends and Matches. You can get them by adding someone as a friend, and by liking people who have already liked you.
The app won't let me log in.
Make sure you are using the latest version of the app. If you're still encountering problems, you may contact their support team.
Make sure you are using the latest version of the app. If you're still encountering problems, you may contact their support team.
You can sign up using your Instagram account.
What does "user not available" mean?
This notice means the other person already deleted their account. Even though you can still your messaging history, you won't be able to see their profile or send a message anymore.
How do I change my profile picture on HER?
On the bottom of the screen, select "Me". You will find a white pencil icon on the bottom right corner of your current profile picture. Click on this to change your photo.
Can I cancel a friend request on HER?
No, you can't. But once she confirms it, you can just remove her from your friends list.
Does HER post to Facebook?
No, it won't. The HER team doesn't even have the capacity to.
Can I change my location?
Yes, but only after you purchase a premium membership.
CANCEL
How do I cancel my premium membership?
You have to go the App Store or Play Store in your device, find where your subscriptions are being managed, and follow the instructions from there.
How do I delete my HER account?
Go to "My Profile", select "Settings", then "Support", and finally choose "Close account". Once you delete your account, it can't be reactivated.
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